Heterophobia?

Something has crossd my mind over the last few days. I have been a little surprised at the absolute contempt and near hatred expressed by some gay activists and not so acttivists against those who disagree, even respectafully disagree, with them. 

I 'lost' a very dear friend last week simply because I expressed a few that America has much greater sins that gay marriage. I watched a video where a gay avtivist crowd resonded to street preachers with pure anger. I am sure that the preachers were there to antogonise, but the response was way over the top. This week in the White House several gay activists were photographied 'giving the finger' to a portrait of President Reagan with 'f*** Reagan' captions. 

It does not seem to be enough to be tolerant. It looks like those who do not agree with gay marriage and the gay agenda should not only tolerate, but must embrace the concept with open arms. I saw this years ago with a gay character on a televison programme told her mother 'I don't want you to just accept what I do and love me, I want you to love what I am.'

So while some see every straight person who disagress as being 'homophobic' are we not seeing a rise of 'heterophobia?'